Suffolk County Council Family Wellbeing Information
Suffolk County Council Family Wellbeing Information
For children with SEND, anxiety or sensory overload are common factors affecting behaviour and attendance, which are not always easy to spot. If you think there may be underlying needs, discuss and explore with school how these might be assessed and supported.
It can be useful to think about who you would like to meet with in school. School staff have different roles and you might want to change who you meet with as your child’s needs emerge or change. For example, to start with you may have spoken with their class teacher, or someone in a pastoral role at the school and you may now find you want to talk to the SENCO to discuss next steps with assessing and supporting your child’s needs.
You may find it helpful to look at your school’s ‘SEN Information Report’, which should explain how the school identifies and supports pupils with SEN:
Working with school
Ask your child what they are finding difficult and what they would like to change – this can help identify specific triggers and worries. Your child’s views should always be the starting point of any discussion about support.
Here are some ideas for support strategies for your child which you could ask about:
- meet and greet by a trusted member of staff at the start (sometimes during or at the end) of the day
- school staff regularly checking with them that they are okay
- visual timetable – clear information about what happens now and next
- help to understand and manage their feelings and emotions
- positive praise (for getting through a lesson – replacing sanctions for challenging behaviour)
- ‘time-out’ card for when feeling overwhelmed in lessons
- lesson breaks (to allow some calm down time)
- changes to timetable if particular lessons are a trigger
- learning away from the classroom, in a dedicated area or room sometimes known as a ‘safe space’
- lunching away from the dinner hall, ask whether any lunchtime clubs available. (avoiding a crowded dinner hall)
- 1:1 or small group interventions, support programmes, anxiety or friendship groups
- permission to leave lessons or school 5 minutes early to avoid crowded corridors
Involving specialist services
You can speak to a school nurse, your child’s GP or contact the Children and Young People’s Emotional Wellbeing Hub for advice, recommendations or a possible referral to specialist health services. Share this information with school so they have the full picture, and you can discuss next steps together.
When you meet with school to discuss your child’s support plan, you can ask about referral options, for example:
- counselling (some schools have a regular counsellor available)
- a CAF – a way of working with families and assessing needs
- referral to the Specialist Education Services
- the Psychology and Therapeutic Service (for an Educational Psychologist or Inclusion Facilitator)
- to a specialist health service, such as CAMHS.
- a request to the local authority to carry out an EHC needs assessment, or where an EHC plan is already in place, requesting an early review
For the full range of support services available to children and young people with SEND go to: www.suffolklocaloffer.org.uk
Support and advice for young people:
ChatHealth – young people 11-19 can text a school nurse on 07507 333356 (for advice on a range of issues including; sexual health, drugs, self-harm, bullying)
4YP – local charity organisation supporting young people 12-25 with social, emotional and physical health and wellbeing in Suffolk (drop-ins and counselling)
Kooth – online counselling and emotional wellbeing support service for young people in Suffolk aged 11 to 18
Moodwise – digital tools and resources to support young people’s emotional wellbeing
Young Minds – young people in crisis can text: YM to 85258
Sometimes anxiety can worsen to the point that a child or young person starts to feel they are unable to go to school. Speak to their school as soon as possible to let them know about the difficulties they are experiencing. You should also talk to their GP.
Children of compulsory school age have the right to a full-time education unless, due to health needs, it would not be in their best interests.
A part-time timetable must not be treated as a long-term solution. This should only be in place in exceptional circumstances and for a temporary period, with an agreed date for when the reduced timetable will end.
In some circumstances alternative provision can be used alongside mainstream or special education, to support vulnerable learners who may have health needs. Schools can use the ‘Inclusion service referral process‘ to request this.
The Suffolk County Council Family Services team and how to contact them. (to contact the local authority with any questions about alternative provision)
Five Finger Breathing (a simple guided breathing exercise) – short video from Pooky Knightsmith mental health
Choosing to home-educate (known as Elective Home Education or EHE)
Schools must not seek to persuade parents to educate their child at home by way of avoiding exclusion, or due to poor attendance.
Home educating a child requires a lot of dedication, hard work and patience. Being both parent and teacher can be very challenging. For some parents it is a rewarding option which works well for them and their child, but it is a big decision to make.
Parents consider EHE for many reasons, for example if they are being threatened with prosecution for non-attendance. However, if your child is struggling at school or refusing to go, if they are extremely anxious, have sensory needs which are overwhelming or at risk of exclusion, electing to home educate may not necessarily be the answer in the long term. There may be support or other options which better meet your child’s needs and family circumstances.
Take time to explore options and find out as much as you can about home educating so you can make an informed choice. There are many websites offering information and advice, and you may be able to find a local support group with other parents making the same choice.
Where you have an Education, health and care (EHC) plan
If your child is becoming anxious about going to school and they have an Education, Health and Care plan, you could contact the local authority to request an early annual review.
The review will provide you with the opportunity to let the local authority know about the difficulties and discuss the support in place, and the progress being made towards outcomes. You can also ask for re-assessment if you believe your child’s needs have changed significantly since the plan was first issued, if you think the professional advice needs updating, or the provision is no longer meeting needs.
You will be able to propose any changes you would like to see made to the plan, for example with the support that is provided or with the outcomes.
You will also have an opportunity to request a particular school to be named, should the local authority decide to amend the plan following review.
Did you know?
We offer advice and support to young people directly and can help them to share their views and get involved in discussions about their support, read our service leaflets: